two words

2 Words No Man Can Resist

When I ask women what they think the most powerful words they can say to a man would be, I’m usually given the replies, “I love you,” “You’re special” and “Yes, I’ll have sex with you.” While all of these statements are nice and sometimes very powerful, they won’t necessarily make him bond with you. The two words that cause nearly every man to feel closer to you are these:

“I’M LISTENING.”

Here's why these words have such an impact on his heart. Most women can multitask. They can listen easily even when they are focusing on something else. The problem for a man is that once he begins opening up, it feels really vulnerable.

He not only needs you to listen, but he also wants to feel like you're listening. He needs some sort of cue from you that what he's saying is important or that you're interested. Don't expect him to think like a woman and just "know" you're listening.

I want you to get credit when you pay attention to what he's saying. Rather than drop everything you are doing, all you need to do is remember the two magic words above and when to say them.

Here's what it looks like:
When he's talking, at some point he'll likely pause or just stop talking. He's not sure if you're paying attention. When you hear that pause, that is your chance to draw him closer to you. When he does pause, wait a second, and then look directly at him. In your softest most enchanting whisper say, "I'm listening."
He'll get goose bumps when he hears you say those words that will open his heart to you. Why?

Because it's unexpected. Because your soft whisper will penetrate his heart deeper than you spending an hour telling him how much you like him.

Because it will make him feel that you understand him. Don't expect him to tell you what I just described- just trust me on that. When you make a man feel this kind of connection, he doesn't want to talk about it...he wants to enjoy it.

Appointments

Story of Time in appointments. Please comment and take a moment to feel what happened and see what your feelings are about this situation or any situation. recipient as well as participant.

 

Story. Man wanted to see woman.. Man said 10 am at a certain place. Woman agrees. Woman was early and waited but had other things to do. Should she stand around waiting for man. Two and half hours pass. Woman thought she was stood up so went around to do other things which was important. Man arrived 2 hours later. Then stayed around half hour then went home and complained about the woman not being there, all over the net. The time was specific 10 am. Was the given time, and agreed up on. He arrived 12 pm.. First meeting. How would you feel about this. Story.. it happened.

 

The male never gave his number for any phone calls..  

 Question: Should the woman stick around? Question: Did the man have the right to abuse her about not being there?  

Now. to complete the story. Man was an important person. Does he have the right to abuse her on line? Making out that he was the victim and say he was stood up and he likes punctual , and carry on....?  

I find it all so interesting.. as many men complain about women, when men also do the same things.  

So you rather be late for a meeting or early?  

Does a doctor see you when you are late or early? Or on his time schedule?  

What happens if your kept waiting even when you are on time?  

How do you feel when he is never on time and what are your reactions?  

Do you look rushed when you’re on time?  

Or do you arrive a bit early to give yourself time to prune up and be on time?  

Or do you like letting time go, to see what the other person does and why?  

Have you any integrity?  

She arrive early and was there on time.. she .. are you late every time? What is your explanation when you are before or late on the designated time?  

And when you give a speech are you on time? Or are you there early going over your speech.. calming down and preparing so you can be on time?  

Or do you rush in and look messed up and go out there with no prep, on time?  

These are all valid questions.  

Being late has no integrity, as you lose the confidence of people. It shows who you are. privately as well as business and etc  

I might add, waiting around ..also shows who you are.