Relationships

Sexual Chemistry Matters in Relationships
 
If you are not attracted to someone, you cannot force it.
 
If you were attracted to each other but lost the attraction, get rid of what is in the way.
 
You can get it back.
 
Certain factors and Qualities Make a Partnership.
 
·       Ability to commit, including one’s ability to be monogamous.
 
·       Graduation from the parents = child bond, enabling spouses to be number one.
 
·       Ability to create emotional intimacy& friendship.
 
·       Common interests & hobbies as well as things you like to do individually. Particulary important for older couples in long marriages.
 
·       No unrealistic expectations of being able to change someone.
 
·       Long term love & sex is usually not as passionate as when couples first meet. Men, more than women, often think this must mean the relationship is over. In good relationships both partners know that sex evolves into family.
 
·       Both partners that marriage won’t solve problems such as insecurity and low-self-esteem.
 
·       If the relationship breaks down because of irreconcilable differences, women are more likely to end it. An enlightened man would as well. They would rather be alone than to be alone & miserable in a relationship.
 
Second Marriages
 
·       Have a better chance of succeeding if both parties gained wisdom about what went wrong in the first marriage and know not to repeat.
 
·       Both genders know they must be over protective of their biological children. They know their partner is in love with them, not their children.
 
·       Father’s & daughters are not blinded to faults or manipulation from their “little girl” and mothers allow step father’s to discipline within reason, excluding physical or mental abuse –“her”children.
 
·       They know that martial partners must come first, then all others, and each partner gets to be who they are with each other’s children.
 
·       First marriages, money id usually “ours”Second marriages work out an agreement about “ours” or “mine and yours” = what goes into the wills and what goes to the children.
 
·       Mistrust is scar from previous relationships; the non-trusting person knows they might do well with therapy. Relationships cannot breathe without trust.
 
·       If one has been hurt, they know the pain is always a risk in any relationship. Can they survive or not? If the cannot they know they are not yet a candidate for another relationship.
 
When they are ready, the find a partner, then surrender to the relationship, knowing whatever happens, they’ve done their all and will be OK, no matter what.
 
That is what I know about relationships. Domination is not one of those which I want in my life.. I require a man to Respect me, proffess his love for me and stand by me, Protect me in public and privately and proved for me.. sometimes spoil me, surprise me and love me.

 

 

Thoughts.. on thought of American Indians.Spirit. Love.

After all the lives of the American Indians, Their lives were lived though teachings o life. In books of English and all languages. their stories were all passed down by word only.
the new people in Self esteem and spiritualist and all professional writers. I have seen that these people (native Indians) know more about spirit and love than other nations never took seriously until recently.
I have extracted a few things for examples.  Enjoy and take in mind that all of these things and words were said before we began to write and even think of them.
Yet they were percuted and driven away. Yet they are still strong in spirit and Love.
~North Direction, North Wind~ ~Eagle (Wanblee)) is a symbol of leadership, and to the Indian it is the creature symbol of greatest power because it flies so high, close to the Great Spirit, and is regarded as the eyes of the all-seeing powers of Wakan Tanka, the one above who created all things...the Indians wore the feathers of the eagle, but this bird is so highly regarded that each feather has to be earned by the wearer. Deeds of bravery, generosity, self sacrifice, or provident wisdom could result in the wearing of an eagle feather...~

~We've walked a thousand miles,

 and cried a thousand tears...

 ~We've hidden through generations,

 and aged a thousand years...

 

~We've silently fought our battles,

 as we buried our men of war...

 ~And prayed that God keep safe,

 the children that we bore...

 

~We've been scorned by the masses,

 if a stand we try to take...

 ~To demand our right's and freedom,

 without our souls to forsake...

 

~It may not happen tomorrow,

 but this change is in the wind...

 ~This battle has already begun,

 in this message I send...

 

~As we walk the next thousand miles,

 and not shed a single tear...

 ~We will fight for this generation,

 for the Rainbow Tribe is here....~

~Do not let your heart be hardened, but to let it be as spacious as Grandfather Sky, and as generous of spirit. Compassion is the root of ethical action, but grief and sadness are like a heavy stone that blocks the good road to healing...let us be ready to begin...~ ~American Indian Prophecies~

~You can kill, or try to kill a people, but the light of their spiritual life continues to burn inside them, then they shall continue..t his has been the ways of the Jews all through history, through many attempted destructions, you would have to kill every last one to eliminate Judaism, and even then, others will adopt and continue their teachings. This is exactly what is happening with American Indian Culture, People of other cultures, colours and traditions are adopting our ways...~ ~American Indian Prophecies~

The Iroquois people have a great understanding of the patterns of human life, and social structure. Everything is an extension of the self. The self is realized through interaction with other beings, this is the basic human experience. The first part of this experience is the male/female relationship, since we live in a world of duality, positive, negative; male, female. From relationship comes family. From the family comes the community. From the community comes the society. From the society comes the nation and so forth...but it all begins with self...~ ~Last Cry~

~Your desire is what gave you hope and new direction each time your dream called Life seemed to collapse. Desire is the emotional drive that gave you the instinct to survive and continue. All of your past experiences culminate in each experience you develop in the moment...the final outcome will depend upon our personal choices in how we play out the human drama. There will be no one road, there will be no one event to point to, and the future is not yet written in stone...~ ~Last Cry~

~It is felt that soon there will be no pure bloods among the Indian people, and eventual reality of all races. However this is not a bad thing. No, it is the evolution, part of the Creator's plan. We are destined to become the Earth Race, one people, one planet, one Mother, one Father. The races are coming together in accordance with the balance of life that must occur if humankind is to survive. The separatism we have known, as it has been taught through our many religions, cultures, and nation, has outlived it's usefulness. There is being born through this experience a Rainbow People, possessing knowingness of all the races, all the religions and all the cultures...~ ~Last Cry~

~If you can no longer get up in the night and listen to the falling rain, or to listen to the sound of the owl outside your window with joy in your heart, if you can no longer enjoy the wind rustling through the grass or the warmth of the sun upon your face, if there is no longer a song in your heart and a dream in your head, then you have lost it anyway. Best to go find what you have left behind ~ you are going to need it...~ ~Last Cry~

~Learn to listen to your own heart. If you learn that, you will know the wisdom of the ages. Learn to speak your own words, and sing your own song, while you learn to allow others to enjoy the same state of being...allow, allow, allow...~ ~Last Cry~

~The people are angry...the youth is angry, we are experiencing Kyanosquatsi, the world out of balance! They are angry at the government which is out of control. They are angry at the legal system that invades our privacy and abuses our human rights, destroys families and persecutes the poor, and steal lands from its citizens and then gives it over to the UN. The anger is growing. Soon it will not be so easy to cover up the truth with all of us asking questions...they will not be able to handle the cover-up with a whole nation of angry people, locked up in their cities...~ ~Last Cry~

~The spiritual awakening will happen of its own accord. We do not have to concern ourselves with what is the proper way. There is no cultural or ethnic secret formula for evolution...most of it is a matter of opening the heart, which will open the mind to new avenues of applied reality. Mostly we have to create an environment free from fear. Creator does not care if you are Christian or Aborigine. Great Spirit hears the human heart. From there we all speak the same language, and from there we are all the same...we are all one relation. Creator only cares that your heart is pure ...~

~Changing "terminology" or injecting words that some may feel more politically correct is not going to happen.. the words from speeches, poems, books and prayers are written as I read them, mostly from the prophets and leaders from centuries ago..everyone is capable of buying this material at any bookstore or online...it is words and speeches and prayers I feel strongly in and want to share with others...these post are ongoing, there is a reason they are in this order. If you have just found this page and are interested in previous post, please just go to photos, click on that and it will take you to every post I have ever written...more on the prophecies will be ongoing...Melody~

~Strive always for happiness and joy, for these are the attributes that allow Love to find you. These are the emotions that, like invisible radio waves, lead us to the Creator, the Great Mystery. The path, the Good Red Road, ia an ancient pathway, and one that is anything but narrow, for in essence it encompasses all that is, for all that is, is God...thus, in truth we can never stray from it. Aye, even within the nucleus of the atom can Creator be found; in a tiny speck of blue light, the flame that burns eternal. Knowing this, why then would you deny Creators existence within your own heart....?

~Never let anyone tell you who you are...that is between you and your Creator, for the truth of what and who we are and our long journey to this present is something few remember. their minds are filled with disconnected thoughts and images of what they are expected to be as...when we first come to own ourselves, we first lose those pictures, and learn to follow the feeling...~ ~Ghost Wolf~

~Heal the Women ~ Heal Humanity ~we must work with the women, we must help them at all costs to heal their pain...in these times that are coming, we need to help women reclaim their power. If they do not reclaim their power, all will be lost. Because in these times the men will no longer act like men.. "They will not be noble and proud of who they are, who they came from, and their connection to the land. They will not hold the words of the creator close to their hearts. They will only hold the words of other men to their hearts, and men can be wrong. Men have become sick with altered ego and greed..they have lost their connection to their inner spirits. They have a material God now. There are no leaders among the People, so our children do not learn, and they now wander aimlessly through life, like lost souls...~

~There are many misconceptions about the Indian ways. We do not worship beasts, and we do not worship stones...we honour them...and we honour the consciousness that is within them. Because we are the Mitakyue oyasin - we are all relations, we are one with all things unto the universe. We are connected to all of life by a web of light...we are all brothers and sisters with the Eagle, the Rabbit, the Tree People, even with the stones. Everything is alive, and that aliveness is the Creator, that is in all things...~

~Fulfil yourself...it is only when you yourself are beyond need, that you can effect change. For it is only when you are in your full power and not coming from the emotion of lack that you are fully capable of manifesting your chosen reality...we give you now the wisdom of the Eagle Nation. Go and gather all around you those who are part of your heart, gather around you all that brings you joy, all that you dream is yours to experience when you gather these things...hold your dreams close to your heart...~

~No matter what you have been, or what you have done, the Great Spirit (Creator) sits evenly with all of us on that day of passing. All that matters is that you did, that you lived it all and drank from the cup of life, and danced your own dance to your own drumbeat...~

~We are all children created by the same God, playing upon a field of dreams...each level leads to another, and the unfoldment of tomorrow is predicted upon the way you walk today and the actions you choose...~

~I now offer to you my feminine viewpoint. It is important to realize that there isn't anything to be afraid of, not even fear, for they are lessons to learn in every experienced we encounter. When we do feel the grips of fear running through our systems, remember that there is always something to learn and the sooner we go neutral, the sooner we "get it", move through it, and boldly come out on the other side, stronger and wiser...~

...power can be as gentle as the smell of the flora, or the sound of the butterfly's wings. Great power is not always the fury of the hurricane...for the Greatest Power is the...Silence...~

~Whatever you own of yourself, you own. No one can take it away from you. You are Spirit, and that is forever...you cannot kill Spirit, you cannot burn Spirit. When you leave this plane, you have the choice to continue, for this is not the end of the journey...by any means...~

~If FOX shows up, it means: ...trust your intuitions, and be wary of someone you're involved with who's attempting to trick you in some way. ~Your intelligence and ingenuity are more useful right now than confrontation and righteousness. ~It's better for you to remain in the background and exert influence from that position than to take an active leadership role. ~It's best to blend into your surroundings, move with stealth, and keep your intentions to yourself. ~Listen and hear, look and see, sense and feel...trust your senses to guide you...~ ~Animal Spirit Guides~

~If Owl shows up, it means: ~Meditate in silence and in darkness for a few minutes each evening for the next few days and see what is revealed to you. Be alert to any deception on the part of others, whether they're aware of it or not, and look closely behind any guises that they may wear. ~This is a particularly ripe period to tap into the wisdom that's available to you...this is a significant time for prophecy, and you will see, hear, or feel events before they actually happen...~ ~Animal Spirit Guides~

~Anything you do on behalf of our animal brothers and sisters will be looked on very kindly by the spirit world and especially by the spirit animals. Thanking them at each and every opportunity through prayer is a subtle but powerful way of honouring them...donating time, or energy or in any way bring to light to others by approaching concerns of animal abuses with your ethics and philosophies of any reputable animal rights or environmental organizations..an active way for you to give something back to our animals...~ ~Animal Spirit Guides~

~When an animal or a symbol of that animal shows up to you in an unusual manner or repeatedly (at least three times in a short period of time), it's most definitely trying to convey a message from the spirit world to you. An example of a repetitive symbolic representation would be when you have a vivid and colourful dream about a bear, go to the market the next day and overhear two strangers.
~The term spirit guide, also known as a helping spirit or guardian angel is a term used for any of these spiritual beings that help us in a life-positive way. We can call on them for guidance, protection, healing, encouragement, and inspiration...some have been with us since childhood, while others have appeared at various periods in our life, perhaps to help us through a difficult transition. We ...may also see them, hear them, feel them, or just know they're with us, and we can have any number of spirit guides throughout our life, whether we're aware of them or not. They want to help us have a more peaceful, harmonious, and happier life, yet will not interfere with our free will...they are happy to serve and willingly do so whenever called...~ ~Animal Spirit Guide~

~If WOLF is your Spirit Guide: ~You have a strong sense of family and community, an intuitive sense of social order, and are very affectionate with your friends and family. You would much rather avoid confrontations, but will fiercely defend yourself and your loved ones whenever necessary. ~You're very expressive verbally and non-verbally and can tell a story with a great deal of passion, sincerity, and animation... ~You're a natural born teacher, imparting knowledge based on experience more than formal education... ~Although you're at ease with your closest friends and family, in most other situations you're actually quite shy...~ ~Animal Spirit Guides~

~If COUGAR shows up, it means: ~You're being called upon to provide leadership to your family, friends and community, or the world as a whole. There's a need for you to be very decisive right now and not equivocate. ~Stop procrastinating with respect to that important task ~ just get to it... ~Stay strong, clear and assertive with those who are asking or demanding that you change when you're not ready to. ~Move forward with faith and courage, and keep your eyes on the goal...~ ~If COUGAR is your Spirit Guide: ~You're a well balanced individual, once you've decided what to do about a situation, you're quick to take action. You're often called upon to take a position of leadership in which others depend on you to provide answers and direction...you prefer solitude to socializing...you're a take charge kind of person, sometimes engendering other's disapproval and criticism...~ ~Animal Spirit Guides

~Friendship is held to be the severest test of character, it is easy, we think, to be loyal to family and clan, whose blood is in our own veins. Love between man and woman is founded on the mating instinct and is not free from desire and self seeking...but to have a friend, and to be true under any and all trials, is the mark of a man...~ ~Dr. Charles Eastman~

~The Tree of Life~ ~The tree of Life represents all that is life, encompassing all that exists upon this planet. When we walk the Red Road, our journey ends under the protection of this Tree. It causes the rhythm of the world to continue year after year, and with each cycle, fruit nourishes those who stand under her boughs. The roots dig deep into history. Those dedicated to this energy know the value of all beings, tend to Mother Earth, and live an honourable life in honour of the spirit of the ancient Tree...~ ~Walking the Red Road~

~The word "Shaman" originated in Siberia, but today many Native tribes and many non-Natives, especially anthropologists, use this word to describe a Native American healer who deals with the underworld, the supernatural, and the spirits...those one's who are true shamans will not write a book or make a public appearance about their work, nor will they advertise their practice or speak of it in public...a shaman can only be found by word of mouth, and those who practice ancient customs are rare. They differ from Native American healers, who often mix traditional medicine with unconventional methods and act more as a physician to the community...~ ~Walking the Red Road~

~Chief Joseph was a major celebrity during his lifetime. Born in what is now north-eastern Oregon in 1840, he was the son of the first Nez Perce Christian converts, also named Joseph, who raised Chief Joseph to support peace with the whites ~ until the government betrayed the elder Joseph and the Nez Perce...Chief Joseph succeeded his father's position in 1871. After several skirmishes and difficulties with the government, he became an eloquent speaker against injustice and inequality, and spoke in support of the freedom of the Native people ♥ ~Walking the Red Road~

~The Great Spirit is our father, but the Earth is our mother. She nourishes us: that which we put into the ground she returns to us, and healing plants she gives us likewise. If we are wounded, we go to our mother and seek to lay the wounded part against her...to be healed ♥ ~Bedagi, Big Thunder, Wabanaki Algonquin, 1900's~

~The Reverend Evan James wrote this letter in from a Cherokee Camp at Little Prairie, Missouri: ~It has been exceedingly cold for some time past which renders the condition of those who are but thinly clad very uncomfortable...every morning we make firse along the road at short intervals. This we have found a great alleviation to the sufferings of the people. ~At the Mississippi River we were stopped from crossing by the ice running so the boats could not pass for several days...there will be an immense amount of suffering and loss of life attending the removal. Great numbers of the old, the young, and the infirm will inevitably be sacrificed, and the fact that the removal is affected by coercion makes it the more galling to the feelings of the survivors....~ ~Footsteps of the Cherokees~See More

~While the bulk of the Cherokee Nation struggled to settle their differences and begin to rebuild their lives in the West, a small band of Cherokees who managed to avoid removal began their own struggle to hold onto lands in North Carolina. Many Cherokees managed to escape removal by claiming to be "Black Dutch" or something other than Cherokee. Some hid deep in the forested mountains and managed ...to avoid the federal troops. Other Cherokees were allowed to stay because they had become United States citizens under the provisions of the 1819 agreement with the federal government...under the treaty of 1819, forty-nine families in North Carolina chose to accept 640-acre reservations and become citizens...~(This is not the end of the story, just a small part of it) *This book also goes into the Cherokees participation in the Civil War, of those that achieved rank of General's, the exploits of many that became heroes on the side of the Confederate States, with monuments erected in their honour*

~Most important are close relationships ~ those in which you felt respect and love on both sides, where giving and receiving were a joy. It turns out that the happiest people live in small communal settings where there is a strong sense of shared commitment to a higher ideal and the willingness to sacrifice to the greater good. When all is said and tallied up, who do you think were the happiest people in America...the Indians...~ ~American Indian Prophecies~

~Crazy Horse, Oglala-Brule Sioux, was born east of the sacred Black Hills in 1842. He later became the war leader of an Oglala subgroup, the Teton Sioux, and was involved in several skirmishes, including the Battle of the Little Bighorn. He surrendered in 1877...and was then killed...~ ~Walking the Red Road~

~That hand is not the colour of your hand, but if I pierce it I shall feel pain, the blood that will follow from mine will be the same colour

as yours...the Great Spirit made us both...~ ~Luther Standing Bear, Oglala Sioux, 1868-1937~



 

The unlimited posibility to assist Entertainment and the People within Entertainment

Thank you for opening this email and thank you for taking your time to read this.
This is some of the information which I wanted to share with you.. This is a real thing..
A foundation which will be self sufficient when it it in complete running.

It will have a Australian and International Memorials which acknowledges and recognises all those who made Entertainment life and completed and did things which were also behind the scenes.
I am after support and sponsors as well as advertisers. This is part for history and part a complete support network. To empower and build strong relationships to empower the people and their lives. Assisting them to unlimited possibilities.

 I do have a passion for this.. I just assist them. Giving choices and options that could enhance and empower their lives.. I have a few things which go along side of this and I am showing that these things are need to be addressed and I have been working on the ways to improve things.
You are a member of Parliament or a person of influence and  which at each time I have been put on the side.

This time I am announcing to various members as this is important and within your own publicity you use the Entertainment as an tool, for getting things over to the public. Though the government bodies, charities and cooperation's, there have been sampling surveys.

What research I have done into your research and who me you get to do research varies. I have been informed that you rely on different businesses to do this and in so knowing that I contacted different business who do surveys and asked what is their max  and min panels.

To my astonishment it is nothing like the one I have done with Entertainment. My total population panel is 89,201 which is pure Entertainment Based..

What panels and areas which were done with professional recognised sources for your panels are no more that 7 thousand at most and only by chance of closed questions. Found out by Dr Lawrence Hulse and Dr Kate Neville that My survey is one which could never be repeated by people without a lot of funds to spare.

I did this by actually talking and communicating with people and respecting their thoughts and ideas. The research I have done had normal questions which were closed: Name: Age: Location: Area: Profession: How many days worked as a artist: etc.

The majority were open questions and were noted to other areas: Health: Welfare: Status: Family: Issues which mean something to the person: etc. I sent some of my findings to the government departments for funding but was knocked back for not being one part only or not enough information for another part or mostly no believed as a serious event/gig/ problem.

 I wanted a yearly festival to raise awareness of people within the Entertainment Industry that require support and acknowledgement. Four years I have sort out funding for a festival, a seminar or a conference. Only to notice that my ideas are being used by others, as the sharing of those ideas was used since 2004.

 I am now keeping most of my information until I get a  confidentially contract signed and witnessed.

 I am a female, with a disability, living on hard times when all money goes to rent now as prices of rent are high . That is my problem..

The following is something which thousands of people in Entertainment who are dealing with. I want to now fully establish a foundation for these people. I might not fit the bill many of your requirements.  .. Please keep reading the following...

I might have been nominated for Australian of the Year a Few times. I might have sent over 102 thousand educational books to the Pacific Region, which has now been taken over by Rotary in 2007..

I am asking you now to believe in something much bigger ..  The Stats were done with 80,000 Entertainment artists and people who work in the Industry over 8 years of research by myself and then there was references from the Medical records and Australian statistics. The research standards were with person to person, phone calls  and emails between these people who are amongst many varied levels within the entertainment Industry.

No one wanted to take on such a task or support any of the research so I did it with all standards in place.. there is more information with my research, but  at this point, I only pulled out the Health issues and some other which are of interest..This was broken down for my interest and knowledge of the Whole Entertainment Industry.

From the back stage, recording, media, medical, etc... So my findings are mine and no one else has supported any of my research others than those who were participated..

They were all in confidential model and there is confidentiality agreements set up so no one could discuss any of this out side of my copyright and IP. As also I was given those who taken the surveys, a confidential agreement that They would allow me to do this by holding their confidentiality in place.

As I am not a recognised researcher I kept all this on confidentiality agreements.. As many of the questions were hitting hard and personal areas of people who are in the entertainment Industry..  As you can understand there is quiet a lot of research and paperwork which was followed through to the letter to give privacy and respect to those who would confide in this research.  And it did take over 8 years just to break into it and the some break down..

My research was for personal reasons and was upheld with total confidentiality and respect for the people who work in the industry and their families.. I do not hand out any of my information without complete confidentiality.

As I use within my area and to gain support and sponsors for areas. As For Support Act, I have been on contact with Lindy, and the responses was that they would like me to be more standing and more out there before they would consider acknowledging what I am about.. So, I am announcing and showing this is not a fly by night thing and that I have done research and fully started the foundations for this project which is of many layers. It may sound soupy and not as business like as most require.

There is business plans for each are which are now completed, communications strategies which are now completed, Advertising strategies which are now placed. Legal strategies and templates available for people who require that resource.

There are 15 counsellors who will be available when needed, they will give their time if I can get Insurance.

There are recording resources being established, movie productions resources being established. There are support networks coming into place and other sources for this to start up ..
The only thing now which is required is monetary resources.. and other networks to link up, if the wish to do so.

The domain names are owned by me and the logo and copyrights are there and expanding.  I am only, one woman, I have taken the steps to re educate myself and to establish this. I have been connected with International Entertainment Industries and expanding the networking for people.
I place all my own time and funds into this..
I have not done this without ups and downs.  I even went back to Tafe and Taken more steps to keep my skills up to date..

I have now gained more information than most and still cannot qualify for and grant as no one takes this seriously.

This is not an assisting project it is so much more and it is recognising people who never get a second look.. as well as the ones who pull in the names..
There was a Cd for cancer and heart being produced by some of these people who care.. Also they have signed contracts etc...

There are people who are waiting to assist on this.. the funds are the requirement.. I am announcing and asking for help now..

Many people in Entertainment are us for charities and slogans, they give their time and resources. Many have private problems themselves and need assisting themselves. Music which they create, movies which they participate in for great and awesome projects, they give up their time to do and with sacrifice of their families. These wonderful people also have needs and personal assistance. This is my project to assist them.. although I have been working on it for ten years. Many government bodies have used certain parts of my IP for their  gains.. as all the people/ companies have used parts of it for their gains.. yes.. they now claim parts as their  ideas.. I started this project in 2002..

Not for me but to get this up and running, as I cannot assist everyone on a one to one basis any longer.. 27 funerals last year alone.. this year I just could not do that again....
There is a great need for all resources to be pulled together within the Industry... I mean all levels..  If I have to keep learning different things I will...

How can I learn more to assist you to take the next step? I attached my education records for your interests.
Please, I welcome all feed back..
Thank you..
Sonia F Stevens

 PS.. I did not sit by and kept wondering why things cannot change.. I went back to school and to learn. I did not stop living like most people when they face challenges.. I do sometimes have bad days, but then afterwards I get up, dust off and keep going.. I do know what if feels like to have nothing, to be harmed, etc... I did not turn to drugs or stayed quiet. I have had a lot of physical pain, then again I care for people who are trying to do the best that they can with what they have and given.

 PPS. This was a letter which was sent to every governing body and company in Australia in 2006, 2008 and 2009. Just thought you should know.

Living your Dreams IS Important to YOU

Dreams a (¯`´¯) ..•*¨`*♫.•´*.¸.•´♥`L O V E *.¸.*
When you follow your dream, it is important not to be one of those people who allow themselves to give up as soon as they face any type of difficulty or obstacles.  If you find yourself in a situation where it does not seem to you can hang on for another minuet, do not give up, because that is always the time when the tide turns. "It is always the darkest before the dawn".

It is true and it is something I remind myself of when things get rough.
We can't help being aware of the pull (the attachment, really) to what we've done repeatedly. Even when we know it's not working, we often find ourselves reverting to old, automatic patterns, whether it's holding on to our positions, playing it safe, being right... Pathways, conditions, and patterns established long ago many times aren't consistent with who we are and what we're up to today.

Hold on tenaciously to your dreams now, persevere, believe and the Universe will get behind you and create miracles for you. Feel this in your heart, your soul.
Remember to believe in yourself. As others belief's are not yours'. Respect others dreams and let others have their dreams and belief's.

Most important, always remain open to receiving your miracles
"Expect a Miracle" everyday.

Have the will and courage to endure, you will be in the exact right spot to grow and succeed.

You can live your life dreaming, or you can live your dreams.

Above all revel in your pursuits of your dreams, savor you successes, and forget your failures. They are not failures when you have learned things from the experiences.
"I have faith in myself and my abilities to overcome what ever is put in my path, because I know the "Universe and "I" is on my side. I have lessons to learn and grow.". "I have dreams and they will grow,when I allow them to."


Positivively charged people react positively to life because they know winning means getting the upper hand in life.  You cannot win if you're feeling defensive all the time. You must take direct action so life reacts to you, instead of just reacting to what life throws to you.  You must do more than just think positively, you must act, feel positively as well. When you do these simple things, see how your life changes.

This does not mean that you ignore problems, but rather you refuse to let problems or obstacles stand in your way.

It means you are ready, will and able to do what ever it takes to make your dreams come true. It also means you do not let your emotions, like any fears and doubts, control your thoughts. Most importantly, it means you disregard what you cannot control, and only focus on the things you can change.

Recognizing the differences between being negatively and positively charged.

Situation: You are asked to do a new task
Negative Reaction: I do not know how.
Positive Reaction: I'll break it into small steps so it will be a piece of cake. "I can do this".

Situation: You're facing an obstacle that seems insurmountable
Negative Reaction: I will never be able to do anything about this.
Positive Reaction: What are the problems, what are the solutions, what do I do first? "When can I take Action?" What great new skill am I going to learn?"

Situation: Unexpected bills
Negative reaction:  What do I have to cut back on to pay the bills?
Positive Reaction: What can I do to earn more money? "Someone thinks of me"

Negative thoughts restrict your growth and your ability to overcome problems and obstacles. You must convert your negative thoughts into both positive thoughts and actions.  Once you do, nothing will ever be able to stand between you and your dreams. You will live you dream, rather that just dreaming.

Now is the time to really start taking life on. Your surrounded by both opportunity and positive energy now, to benefit from this incredible potential, you must take responsibility of you life and consciously use your good fortune to bring about real change, your desire.

"A price of greatness is Responsibility" W. Churchill.

To really experience life, you must participate in it.
That is why you must take responsibility for yourself, your goals, your progress and most important your dreams.

Only you have the power to fulfill your dreams, you just have to decide what you really want, then develop a plan to obtain it, then act upon your dreams, instead of waiting around for them to come true.
The only hard part is perhaps taking the first step. And that is hard because you properly have not ever done anything like it before.  Remember, once you take the first step, your dreams will start looking for ways to fulfill themselves.
Develop an attitude that says, "I have nothing to lose and everything to gain" because you do.  Never be in a rush to tell yourself "No" before anyone else does. Do Not put up barriers or obstacles where non exist. Most people stop themselves from realizing their dreams way before anyone else does.


Do NOT be concerned about doing everything right, because all successful people know "Anything worth doing is worth doing badly".
It is better to do something, anything than to do nothing. You can always make things better – as an artist, business man, athlete, singer or cook knows.
Almost nothing comes out perfect the first time, but practice almost everything gets better and clearer. So do not worry.
No matter what you do, if you keep doing it, it will get easier and easier, and you will get closer and closer to fulfilling your dreams.
Trails are made by the act of walking. Once made, we travel along the grooves that our own repeated action has made for us; the paths we take are well-worn because we take them every day, and we take them in part because, being so well-worn, they are the paths of least resistance and because venturing off the beaten path demands more work, and even risk.*
Transformation doesn't merely change our outlook and actions, it uncovers the structures of being and interpretation on which we are grounded. It removes arbitrary ideas and views that limit and shape what's possible. It takes practice, courage, and real work to give up old, unproductive ways of being. Choosing otherwise, choosing higher ground, inventing and sustaining frameworks that pull for possibility, forwarding the action, becomes a lifelong practice—a continual choosing.
The more we choose, the more we practice giving up what doesn't work, the better we get at it and the speed and frequency with which we free ourselves increases dramatically.
An early-warning system gets built; new environments and courses of action get established. The outcome extends in all directions—it reaches out into space and creates the future like a possibility.
Dreaming new ways to live and enjoy life is making new pathways. Many are afraid of change and will fight you, demoralise you, make you wrong and they want you to become what they see fit and know, these people are not dreamers. They are drones of the worn paths. Remember the phones, the light bulbs, the people who took a different path and made a difference to millions, billions, and your life. These people were shunned, blamed and tormented, although that was in the beginning of their dreams....look now!! you are using their dreams in your life....

 (¯`´¯) ..•*¨`*♫.•´*.¸.•´♥`L O V E *.¸.*

 

I found that who I am is unimportant. What I do is more important. Inspire creative passions which you were born to achieve and be, is!

Copyright by SFS 2003-2008

Aging is inevitable; maturing is optional

Aging is inevitable; maturing is optional

Yet in the mist of all darkness, there are some people who will not give up. I see some people who will not give up even when all hope is lost. Some people give love when it never is given back to them.

Who has not lost faith.

Watching people kill each other over race and greed, waging war over dust and rubble, old words in books of long past.. Yet there are some people who will not be bound, some people who give love are love and share love, some people who realise being lost is closer to being found.

When you love a person without a thought of oneself, even though loves another and will never love you..

My love, my hope for mankind is no less than any other, to believe, acknowledge and inspire with trust and love from the very being. If this is wrong then that is your choice, as this is mine and is how I am. I cannot make anyone believe or live their lives, I can only be me and live the way I am being me.

When you’re given an order that you don’t believe in what is it you do..

I lived my life in that question and yet I believe in people, have faith in people, and still love one who will never return that love, I love, trust and have faith in people.. Thing is whenever I get down, I get up and keep going. Something deep inside keeps me going even in the darkest times. The love of people the belief in people still keeps me moving forward. The friendships made and the friendships which were never meant to be still keep giving me faith on those around me. Even when at time I am lost, the light inside of me rekindles and forgiving, caring comes to the for front of my life..

People will not have trust in me; there is faith, trust, love for them from me..I don’t need to be known or shown off. I am just here for the service of you. As for fame of popularity is yours.. I believe in every one of my friends, they have great talent and so much to offer others.

I was given an order that no one cares and should not give anyone time as they would not do the same for me.. (LONG TIME AGO).Thing is I have faith, love and compassion for you and I will never take on that order. My expectations may never be filled on that, thing is I will always be there for you, no matter what...just sometimes I need a holiday too...

Sometimes I do require a bit of compassion and love too, as it feeds my very being..

Actions

We all have our own dreams. It is up to you and you only to make them come true, as you set the barriers, since childhood.

Actions Steps: Know what you really want

Take a moment to reflect honestly on the following questions

What does success look like for me?

What area of my life needs ramping up or outright transformation?

What steps do I need to take in those area to move towards that I envision?

What does my hear tell me I should do?

What would a break look in my life?

How can I jump start that big break taking place?

Sit down and think about serious problems you have had in the past which are now over. Write down the habits, insights, practices or character strengths that came out of it.

Write down your current biggest problem. Now adjust your perspective. What are some good habits , insights, practices or character strengths that could come out coping with it? What can you learn from it?

Accept that life involves a certain amount of setbacks. Life will throw you curve balls. It is what you do with them that will determine your ultimate reward.

Post a list of problems overcome in your life to serve as a source of strength when it going to get rough.

When you face difficulties, know that the universe is preparing you for greatness, and because no one becomes super successful without the qualities of resilience and persistence that adversity hones in a person’s character.

Adversity forces you to fight, it builds up your mental and emotional muscles. One person learned to swim because they were tossed into the sea. It was sink or swim! While we don’t endorse this method of teaching someone to swim, it illustrates the point that sometimes difficulty makes you into the fighter and survivor you would otherwise not have been.

Does this assist you in anything? Please let me know. Feedback is important to me.

Thank you

Sonia F Stevens

When you truly love someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes. You accept the faults and overlook the excuses. The measure of love is when you love without measure. There are rare chances that you will meet the person you love and who loves you in return. So once you have it, don't ever let go. That chance might never come your way again...

 

 

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