Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Judgements

Non Judgemental is not reacting or giving advice according to your own belief system.  Fully accepting the person and their experiences, which can be separate to your own experiences.  Non judgement is genuine acceptance of different backgrounds and beliefs between you and the other person.

Suspension of judgement is suitable whenever someone discloses themselves and are feeling vulnerable to other peoples opinions and criticisms.  When they are trying to open up and trust you. We can often make judgements or conclusions too early before someone has finished talking. I find being non-judgemental in communicating takes a lot of self awareness.

Non-judgemental is important in interpersonal communication because it allows you to be completely open to the other person and what they are discussing and the other person will be heard.  It enables the person to experience and accept more of who they are and reconnect with their values and self worth.  It allows you to fully understand & value the other person’s point of view.
 
I found that who I am is unimportant. What I do is more important. Inspire creative passions which you were born to achieve and be, is!