Sexual Chemistry Matters in Relationships
If you are not attracted to someone, you cannot force it.
If you were attracted to each other but lost the attraction, get rid of what is in the way.
You can get it back.
Certain factors and Qualities Make a Partnership.
· Ability to commit, including one’s ability to be monogamous.
· Graduation from the parents = child bond, enabling spouses to be number one.
· Ability to create emotional intimacy& friendship.
· Common interests & hobbies as well as things you like to do individually. Particulary important for older couples in long marriages.
· No unrealistic expectations of being able to change someone.
· Long term love & sex is usually not as passionate as when couples first meet. Men, more than women, often think this must mean the relationship is over. In good relationships both partners know that sex evolves into family.
· Both partners that marriage won’t solve problems such as insecurity and low-self-esteem.
· If the relationship breaks down because of irreconcilable differences, women are more likely to end it. An enlightened man would as well. They would rather be alone than to be alone & miserable in a relationship.
Second Marriages
· Have a better chance of succeeding if both parties gained wisdom about what went wrong in the first marriage and know not to repeat.
· Both genders know they must be over protective of their biological children. They know their partner is in love with them, not their children.
· Father’s & daughters are not blinded to faults or manipulation from their “little girl” and mothers allow step father’s to discipline within reason, excluding physical or mental abuse –“her”children.
· They know that martial partners must come first, then all others, and each partner gets to be who they are with each other’s children.
· First marriages, money id usually “ours”Second marriages work out an agreement about “ours” or “mine and yours” = what goes into the wills and what goes to the children.
· Mistrust is scar from previous relationships; the non-trusting person knows they might do well with therapy. Relationships cannot breathe without trust.
· If one has been hurt, they know the pain is always a risk in any relationship. Can they survive or not? If the cannot they know they are not yet a candidate for another relationship.
When they are ready, the find a partner, then surrender to the relationship, knowing whatever happens, they’ve done their all and will be OK, no matter what.
That is what I know about relationships. Domination is not one of those which I want in my life.. I require a man to Respect me, proffess his love for me and stand by me, Protect me in public and privately and proved for me.. sometimes spoil me, surprise me and love me.
If you are not attracted to someone, you cannot force it.
If you were attracted to each other but lost the attraction, get rid of what is in the way.
You can get it back.
Certain factors and Qualities Make a Partnership.
· Ability to commit, including one’s ability to be monogamous.
· Graduation from the parents = child bond, enabling spouses to be number one.
· Ability to create emotional intimacy& friendship.
· Common interests & hobbies as well as things you like to do individually. Particulary important for older couples in long marriages.
· No unrealistic expectations of being able to change someone.
· Long term love & sex is usually not as passionate as when couples first meet. Men, more than women, often think this must mean the relationship is over. In good relationships both partners know that sex evolves into family.
· Both partners that marriage won’t solve problems such as insecurity and low-self-esteem.
· If the relationship breaks down because of irreconcilable differences, women are more likely to end it. An enlightened man would as well. They would rather be alone than to be alone & miserable in a relationship.
Second Marriages
· Have a better chance of succeeding if both parties gained wisdom about what went wrong in the first marriage and know not to repeat.
· Both genders know they must be over protective of their biological children. They know their partner is in love with them, not their children.
· Father’s & daughters are not blinded to faults or manipulation from their “little girl” and mothers allow step father’s to discipline within reason, excluding physical or mental abuse –“her”children.
· They know that martial partners must come first, then all others, and each partner gets to be who they are with each other’s children.
· First marriages, money id usually “ours”Second marriages work out an agreement about “ours” or “mine and yours” = what goes into the wills and what goes to the children.
· Mistrust is scar from previous relationships; the non-trusting person knows they might do well with therapy. Relationships cannot breathe without trust.
· If one has been hurt, they know the pain is always a risk in any relationship. Can they survive or not? If the cannot they know they are not yet a candidate for another relationship.
When they are ready, the find a partner, then surrender to the relationship, knowing whatever happens, they’ve done their all and will be OK, no matter what.
That is what I know about relationships. Domination is not one of those which I want in my life.. I require a man to Respect me, proffess his love for me and stand by me, Protect me in public and privately and proved for me.. sometimes spoil me, surprise me and love me.
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